July 9, 2008
Sobre el sexismo en la vida cotidiana
I have had a version of this conversation several times in the past month.
Whiteman, with or without education: Public higher education in the United States is free.
Professor Zero: It is not.
WM: You are wrong. The United States is a rich country and the definition of public education is that it is free.
PZ: I have three or four higher degrees from U.S. institutions and I am tenured faculty at one; I know a little more about the cost of higher education in the U.S. than you do.
WM: I do not believe you. You need to come to dinner with me so that we can debate this matter.
PZ: Thank you, but I am not available.
WM: You need to be available, because this conversation is of great interest to me. What is your cell phone number?
PZ: I don’t know.
WM: What? You don’t know? That’s terrible! Why don’t you know?
PZ: Women don’t know things.
WM: You need to know your cell phone number for your safety!
PZ: I don’t know it so that, even when I am wracking my brain for ways to bow out of a situation like this one with some kind of grace, I will be unable to cede to pressure to give it out.
WM: You mean you don’t want to go to dinner?
PZ: That is what I said.
WM: Is there another man?
PZ: That does not concern you.
WM: Of course it does, because I am interested. If there is no other man then it is your duty to have dinner with me so I can explain the U.S. higher education system to you.
Normally I do not let the conversation develop this far but at an event where my interlocutor was a friend of a friend I had to.
Axé.









